I’m currently reading the book, “Love Does” by Bob Goff. For the record, I highly recommend it. This post is about something I learned from the book.
Chapter 22 is called “The Puppeteer.” What is the “Puppeteer?” Apparently it’s a very expensive painting that Bob liked very much. Once he saved up enough money, he bought it. When he picked it up, the art gallery gave him two paintings. The original and a very good “fake.” The thinking is that the original is too valuable to display, so you hide that in the closest or the safe and put the “fake” on display.
Bob didn’t do that. Anyone who has read his book would know that a skateboard riding, mountain climbing attorney known for his epic rubber band gun fights with his kids wouldn’t put the fake one up. He put the original one up.
And it got hit by a rubber band – hit in a way that it left a mark. Now I don’t know how much the painting cost, but if an attorney had to save up money to buy it. Well…….
So, did Bob get upset? Did he ban all rubber band gun fights with his kids? Did he bemoan the “ruin” of his perfect painting?
No, he didn’t. He actually liked the painting more with the rubber band mark on it.
Let me repeat, HE LIKED THE RUBBER BAND IMPERFECTION on the valuable painting.
Why? Because it is a symbol of how God views us. So many of us try to be perfect, try to look perfect, try to make it look like we have all of our stuff together. But in reality, we’re covered with rubber band gun welts from losing battles.
And that’s the way God wants to see us. He welcomes us with our imperfects. He uses cracked pots, He uses scratched paintings – but for us to be used by God, we need to admit that we are those cracked pots and scratched paintings.
So how does this apply to social media? Besides for the countless untruths being passed around on social media, I think that one of the biggest problems with social media is that it encourages people to put on a “front.” You see the pretty pictures of the kids at Disney World, you don’t hear the stories about the car breaking down or the job loss or the emotional struggles.
We can’t help each other and build honest and heartfelt relationships with each other if we can’t be honest with each other.
And being honest means not putting the fake front on, but showing the world our rubber band welts and scrape marks.