The next question that almost immediately came to mind was, “How do we tell the kids?”
How do we tell them that we’re going to add to the family – and we don’t know who, how, where from, what age? There’s a lot we don’t know.
We decided to tell them at Christmas time. So I wrote a letter addressed to all three of them.
In it, we told them how proud we are of them. How well they are doing and how much they have grown up. How grateful we are that they all love Jesus and are beautiful on the inside (and outside – but that’s not as important).
We also told them how we are feeling that God is telling us that we have more room – more room in our hearts, more room in our house and more room in our family. We said we didn’t know what that really meant. We didn’t know if God was calling us to:
Adopt an infant domestically.
Adopt from the foster care system.
Become a foster family
Do the “Heal the children” thing for a series of kids who need a host family while they are in the US for medical treatment.
But we were feeling God’s call and we wanted to share it with them upfront and right away because it was something that would have an impact on them as well.
The letter then finished with the StarFish Poem. You know the poem? The one where the kid is throwing starfish back into the ocean and an older gentleman says, “Why even bother, there are thousands? What’s the difference?”
It made a difference for that one.
How did they respond? Stay tuned……