A Chance Meeting? Nah……

So, if you are a friend of mine on Facebook, you might have read a story I wrote a while back.   I was working at a local coffee shop (getting some stuff done before going back to the home office).   There were two guys sitting at the table next to mine and when they finished up, one of the guys came over and said to me,  “Excuse me, can I ask you a question?   Are you involved in running a ministry?”   So, I explained to him that my role is to raise support and funding for an orphanage in Haiti.   His next sentence has stuck with me for a long time – “God told me to tell you that everything is going to work out.”

So we talked a bit more and I thanked him for that and went about the rest of my day feeling a bit more secure and assured that “God’s got this.”

So, jump forward to tonight.   My wife (night shift nurse) is at work.  My 12 year olds have youth group tonight, so I’ve got 2 hours all to myself.   Normally, I would have either gone home or gone to the Biggby that’s relatively close to our church.

But tonight, I didn’t.  My younger 12 year old had some library books that had to get returned today.    My wife was going to drop them off on the way to work but my daughter neglected to bring them down in time.   So, I told her I’d drop them off after I brought them to youth group.

Since I went that way, I decided that rather than go to Biggby, I’d circle around and go back to my favorite spot, Panera.

I walked into the upstairs at Panera and this young guy was walking out.   He turned and looked at me, “Hey, I know you.   You’re the guy I met a few months ago with a ministry in Haiti?   How is it going?   What can I pray for for you?”

So we talked for a few minutes, I told him that probably the main prayer request I would have is for faithfulness.   Pray for faithfulness for the adoptive parents who are struggling, pray for faithfulness for those who support our ministry financially.   Pray for faithfulness for our staff and volunteers.   The devil is fighting hard to wreck the lives of these children and we need people to continue to fight faithfully on behalf of “our” kids.

He shook my hand, thanked me for giving him the opportunity to pray and said that he would continue to pray for our work.

1 minute.   If I had gotten to Panera one minute later, he would have been gone.   If my daughter had brought her books down in time, I would be at Biggby and wouldn’t have met him tonight.   If……   If……..

This is no coincidence.  God had it planned and because of that plan, I had the opportunity to hear a total stranger tell me that he’s going to be praying for the kids in Haiti, for our staff and praying for me.

God is good!  All the time…….


That Information Is Above Your Pay Grade

I was watching a TV show the other night when that phrase kept coming up again and again.   It was referring to classified government information and talking about how certain people at certain “pay grades” aren’t “high enough” to be able to have access to that information.

And then this morning, I was reading Job 21 as part of my personal devotions and I came across this passage:

“But who are we to tell God how to run his affairs?  He’s dealing with matters that are way over our heads.”

Essentially, Job is saying the same thing.   There are many things that we need to take on faith because we don’t know the answers.  

Because the answers are way above our pay grade.  

So, what do we do?   How do we live with many things, the many evils, the many tragedies in this world without knowing why?

We trust our eternal commander in chief, acknowledge that He is dealing with matters that are way over our heads and that He’s got it handled.

The information is way above our pay grade – so we trust and we do what we can to fight against those evils, those tragedies, those injustices in the world knowing that some day, in many cases when we get to heaven, the information will be de-classified and we’ll know and see God’s plan in all of it.

Right now it’s above our pay grade but that’s okay…….


Why I Write

Jeff Goins is a writer who has been very helpful to me (though he doesn’t know it.   He has written a couple of books that I’ve found to be very helpful.

He recently wrote a post on his blog called, “Why I Write.”   In it he urges people to share why they write.    So, I am.

I write for three reasons:

  1. I write because it helps motivate people to make a difference for the kids in Haiti.   If you want to read more about that, go to http://glahaiti.org/toms-make-a-difference to see more of that.
  2. I write because I believe that we’re all better off if we share life together.   There are too many people who are struggling quietly and feel like they are all alone.   By writing, I can help people not feel so alone.
  3. I write because it helps me figure out what I think.   As Flannery O’Conner said, “I write because I don’t know what I think until I read what I say.”

That’s just part of why I write.   I also write because life is never boring and there’s no shortage of material to write about.

Stay tuned and thanks for visiting…..


Life is Never Boring

But right now, this blog is.   I know that.  I’m going to start sharing my thoughts, ideas, activities, things I’ve read and things that matter to me as we walk through this life that God has given us.

Some of it will be fun, some of it will be hard, some of it will be deep and some of it will be shallow.

But it will all be thoughts from an ordinary guy.

A guy with a passion to write and a passion to see God at work.

Thanks for visiting…..